Sometimes you just need someone to think with.
Then you figure out what you actually want.
Coaching…
Not a therapist. Not a life coach with a 12-step program.
An honest conversation with someone who's been through a few things and asks decent questions.
I work with people who are at some kind of crossroads — not necessarily in crisis, but sensing that something needs to shift. Maybe the situation is clear and the next step isn't. Maybe everything looks fine from the outside and feels stuck on the inside.
There's no fixed format. We start where you are.
What people usually come with
Some version of these things tends to come up:
A decision that keeps getting deferred. A change that feels overdue but also risky. A life that works on paper but doesn't quite fit. A transition — relationship, career, identity — that needs more than a spreadsheet to navigate.
You don't need to have it figured out before we talk. That's kind of the point.
Words from my clients…
“I wholeheartedly recommend you to friends and colleagues because you can so skillfully help humans step into a space in their lives that is usually scary for them. I recognise that you realise the importance of this work in all areas of life: financially, emotionally, sexually, physically and that’s an important message that everyone needs to understand. I’ve learned some extraordinary things that simply wouldn’t be available to me without your insights and guidance (that breakthrough on the ***** issue was the furthest and deepest response anyone has got from me!)”
— Chris (IT Manager)
“It was a great experience. It twisted and contorted me into a new shape. Some big learnings and new concepts that I was awakened to that I never would have discovered without your guidance – thanks! A new dimension has opened up.”
— Grant (Lawyer)
“You provide a calming presence that makes me feel comfortable and safe about potentially confronting topics. You were very organised and sessions are well thought out. I could tell you had taken copious notes and I appreciated that you had obviously reviewed them in advance of each session rather than doing it on the fly. You obviously have great insight and experience.”
— Sarah (Designer)
Every decision we make is shaped by patterns… what’s yours?
How it works
A single conversation — $197
One session, no commitment beyond that. We open things up, find out what's actually going on, and you leave with more clarity than you came with. A good place to start if you're not sure whether coaching is even the right thing for you.
Ongoing work — by arrangement
For people who want to go deeper over time. We work at whatever pace makes sense — weekly, fortnightly, or around what's happening in your life. No locked-in packages.
For fathers navigating separation
A particular focus of mine. The practical stuff — co-parenting, rebuilding routine, figuring out what you want the next chapter to look like — alongside the personal. Less advice, more thinking it through together.